Monday, April 27, 2015

Reason #19 Why I Love Polyamory

Two words: hug sandwich.

This is one of my favorite photos. My wife took a selfie when my boyfriend and I were falling asleep. It warms my heart to see the love on her sweet face, and the way she both literally and figuratively embraces my relationship with my boyfriend. Plus, I think she looks extra cute here.

I adore my cuddly poly family.


  1. That is super cute! It seems so strange to me, being able to accept multiple relationships at once. It seems so blissful and wonderful. I just don't understand how jealousy doesn't get in the way. I am in awe of you all! :)

    1. Thanks for the comment! Believe me, it made no sense to me either until we decided to try it for the sake of keeping our marriage together. I am lucky my partners don't experience much jealousy. I on the other hand struggle a lot. Jelousy doesn't get in the way because I bawl my eyes out and punch pillows, but don't direct it toward the people I care about, and don't let it dictate how we live our lives. Jealousy causes me a great deal of hardship and pain, but I'm committed to working through it, and hope it will get easier with time.